Men Can Distinguish the Virgin Hymen or Not?

Some men think virginity can be recognized in many ways. Of physical appearance, a torn hymen is not a virgin when it will look and sensation during sex is not a doormat anymore. Is that easy?
Besides the thrill doormat, having sex with a girl who is a virgin is also said to be accompanied by bleeding and screaming in pain. Makin partner in pain, the man also believes that she is a girl memperawani ting-ting.
Dr Prima Progestian, SpOG, a sexologist from UB Women's Hospital in South Jakarta to try to straighten the myth. He said a woman could be in pain and bleeding due to a lack of stimulation and lubrication, not merely because it is still a virgin.
Readiness factors will determine the comfort women during sex. If the conditions are not ready, for example, less heating is then forced to penetrate the friction will be larger and painful blisters or bleeding then occurs.
Similarly, the condition of the hymen, a layman can not judge yourself for what garment. Hymen is torn because he had an injury, often riding a bicycle or riding by naked eye there was virtually no difference to the damage caused by sexual intercourse.
Even though the virginity tests doctors rarely differentiate the cause of the damage, even when examined in detail it makes no difference. Whatever the cause of the damage to the hymen, the information given is usually written only damaged by a blunt object.
"Except for cases of rape, it causes tearing the hymen can be sure that there are patches of sperm and it could be linked. IBHS examination must be, if it can not be long," said Dr. Prima when contacted detikHealth, as written on Wednesday (19/09/2012) .
While sexologist Dr Andri Wanananda, MS said to be perfectly honest man can not tell exactly where the hymen virgin and non virgin.
"Actually, it does not feel physically. Differ only in sexual behavior as nervous the first night she was probably because he has not had sex, or bleeding due to tearing of the hymen. But that is not necessarily a measure because if a man is able to stimulate a woman when foreplay there will be good and vaginal lubrication broke so do not even bleed the first time you have sex, "said Dr. Andri.

Tips that Still Undergoing New Relationships Romance

 

Relationship which has been running for so many weeks or months is still very vulnerable to separation. At the beginning of the relationship, many women are willing to do anything and overreact to pamper lover.

Being normal is and still be yourself at the beginning of the relationship. Demonstrate genuine attitude can actually make the relationship healthy and successful run. These are tips in a love affair that was new, quoted from 29 Secrets.

1. No Need to Always obey
No need to always say 'yes' if you do not agree with him. For example, he tells you to go home early because he wanted to meet with you. If at night you have an appointment with someone else, you do not need to comply. Tell me honestly is that you can not see him. You may be reluctant to reject it, but from the beginning you have to be able to say 'no' if it did not fit.

2. Firm
Be firm and be able to express what you think. For example, if he had reported your hours one night after he went with his friends, tell him it's already too late and too late to tell her. Flat and firm. You do not need to be ashamed to say what you need. You need to be notified to him.

3. Never Too Seriously
Do not be too often talk something heavy. Insert joke and tell silly event you have ever experienced. Women who are too serious, especially've been chatting to the wedding can make a man so scared and tired. Make the connection as comfortable as possible.

4. Few Secrets
The mysterious woman made her more curious. At the beginning of the relationship does not have to tell you in detail about your life. Simply SMS or BBM occasionally. 'Pull them off' can still be a weapon to make the woman the more he fell in love.

5. Controlling, Not Dominant
You want to be in control, but do not be dominant. How, listen to him carefully and make sure you are interested in what she's talking about. When you make her feel comfortable, she will be happy to talk with you. When men feel comfortable, then he will be more open and able to accept you enter.

Natural Childbirth Preparation Tips

Tips natural childbirth preparation / delivery to prepare for a natural birth can help you prepare mentally and physically. Giving birth naturally became its own happiness for pregnant women. Another case had a cesarean section if the actual hazard has 3 times greater than the natural birth process. This should be an understanding for pregnant women. Giving birth with medical intervention, be it induction, vacuum, forceps or SC is only necessary if the mother is not a normal condition or endanger the safety of mothers and babies. Lifestyle who want their children born on a certain date, the pain and fear that surgery is safer misconceptions. God knows far more intense and that has given the power of a woman's ability to live a natural birth. Here are tips for preparing for the birth labor naturally.


Tips childbirth preparation / delivery to birth naturally
1. Consult / come to the doctor / midwife and professional support to deal with the birth naturally. It really helps you to increase the knowledge of the natural birth process and simultaneously increase the self-confidence and mental readiness. Choose practitioners truly believe and understand your condition to treat and provide strong support, not vice versa, angry because they think their patients and other fussy. Sorry many practitioners are actually not the kind of a doctor or nurse must serve any patient's condition, must be patient and dedicated sincere. You must believe that God has given all the power of a woman giving birth naturally and it's actually much safer than surgery. Unfavorable surgery can cause disorders such as blockage of blood vessels, puerperal infection, heart problems or could result in removal of the uterus (hysterectomy) in days to come because of infection / inflammation.
2. There are tips that may be overlooked or considered less important for many people that is mental preparation. It is the heart that affect the management of your physical strength. Pay attention to what can make you relaxed and calm, perhaps by listening to music, with people close to, or even by way of hypnosis. Manage preparation that you should do when there is contraction, breathing techniques do well, stay calm, think positive and keep it away from your fears.
3. You alone must decide when you are going to the hospital, waiting for the contractions were intense / more frequent. When the contractions every five minutes with a duration of approximately 20-30 seconds, then segerakan you go to your doctor / midwife you, why should you wait until the contractions are intense? because that is not too long in the doctors, most of them lack patience to wait and tend to accelerate or induce labor, this is what we all should be understood.
4. At the time of contraction you have to keep and keep going so that you are free to move and do the best you can gently, this will stimulate the baby from the womb down the energy increase of the force of gravity so that the baby is in the right position toward the exit. So you should be free to move during labor but do berlebihan.Anda can change the direction of the position which can manage or maintain the contraction that occurs that is not too painful.
5. You need to understand that the labor / birth with lay it ineffective and the direction of the force of gravity, which is why you should be in a standing position and move freely during the process until the baby is in a position really ready to get out you can change the position of squatting or the right position for birth. Also you should not hesitate to shout groan while pushing because it will add energy and also reduce your stress level.
6. Well, so what can I say to your mother, so do not worry and be afraid to give birth your baby naturally, as it is much more secure than by way of medical intervention, God is great Mother, mother be absolutely perfect with birth of your baby in the way of God, and of course you will feel more satisfied and happy with your own struggles. And another thing, the medical action occurs only when the mother's condition is not good and endanger the safety of both mother and baby. A few tips to prepare for the birth of my birth naturally, safely waiting for your baby and be a good mother, Amiin.

Postpartum Sundries

 
The process of pregnancy and childbirth are long and tiring have been experienced by the mothers to the birth of the beloved baby. Many things were experienced and passed, after some time ago Health Info We reviewed the All About Childbirth further on this occasion will be reviewed on postpartum sundries.
The process further experienced postpartum mothers during childbirth is the period of recovery of organs that previously were changed due to pregnancy. Puerperium starting 2 hours after giving birth to 6 weeks postpartum. Previously enlarged uterus containing the fetus will gradually recover to normal. Shrinking uterus at some mothers felt as heartburn in the first few days after birth. Heartburn will be more pronounced when breastfeeding. In addition it will be accompanied during childbirth postpartum bleeding gradual decline with the number of colors that the longer turns.
For that keep cleaning the genital area and replace the pads at least twice a day. Clean with clean water in the bath and after urinating or large in the genital area from front to back and then clean the anal area. Stitches in the genital area will feel pain in the first week postpartum. But do not worry, do not be afraid to pee mom and should remain urinate regularly. If you hold urine will only increase the risk of urinary tract infections and will inhibit uterine downsizing. In women who gave birth in the operation, when the wound dressing using waterproof materials, wound dressings may be scalded while bathing.

    Sundries postpartum: Lactation / Breastfeeding
Breastfeeding is an important process during childbirth. In general, milk would come out after childbirth, due to the birth of the fetus and placenta hormonal factors inhibiting milk production will be lost. While there are some mothers who have breastfed issued since the pregnancy. At the beginning of the release is very little and milk will come out creamy. This is because breast milk contains colostrum are substances that can increase the body's immunity and resistance of the heart. ASI will gradually change color much and to white. Milk production are more and more a baby sucking at the breast stimulation. The more often the frequency of feeding more and more milk production. In early lactation, nipples sometimes be painful and blisters. Apply colostrum or milk that came out around the nipples after each feeding and start feeding from the nipple is not sore before. Eat adequate and balanced nutrition by eating an extra 500 calories each day. Drink a glass of water every time out breastfeeding.

    Sundries after childbirth: stress after childbirth
There are some mothers who experience stress after childbirth. sress that appears is called the babby blues. Stress is caused by hormonal changes, a long labor, as well as the presence of a baby in need of attention and care will consume energy capital. Needed support from loved ones to ease the burden of the mother. Must be available to accompany the husband woke up at midnight, to help care for the baby, understand her feelings. This is the most efficacious drugs. The mother had to arrange time off. Rest enough in the daytime when the baby is sleeping.
So a few health info about 'Sundries after delivery "as a continuation of the article" sundries delivery ", however beautiful happiness when he saw the baby grow and develop healthily. Hopefully useful. Greetings Our Health Info.
Sources: RS PKU Muhammadiyah Yogyakarta - www.pkujogja.com